Building basic trust: Your path to greater self-confidence and inner peace!

Authors: Julia Blömer & Dr. Steffen Blömer

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• Building basic trust as an adult takes time and effort, but it is possible. Start by..., Understanding fundamental fears and to process past experiences.

• Acceptance allows you to live more calmly. Embrace reality and Let go of unchangeable situations. Your self-confidence grows when you value your experiences instead of comparing yourself to others. Avoid constant "Why?" questions., because they will only make you unhappy.

• The Nature offers peace and quiet and balance. Walks, the sound of water, and a variety of colors promote emotional well-being. Have picnics or go hiking to recharge your energy.

• Suppressed anger It disrupts emotional balance. Breathing exercises, sports, or a feelings journal can help. Sounds of nature, imaginary letter writing, singing loudly, and healing one's inner child are also beneficial.

• Music heals, by appealing to emotions. Calming sounds reduce stress, making music strengthens self-confidence, and dancing releases tension.

• self-esteem means valuing oneself while Self-confidence It grows through the acceptance of challenges. Self-care is essential to stay energetic. self-efficacy Achieving personal goals strengthens your confidence in your actions.

Strengthen your self-confidence:

• Journaling reflects thoughts and feelings, overcoming self-doubt.

• Encourage creativity through painting or making music.

• Gather positive experiences; talk openly with trusted people about emotions.

• Seek support from alternative practitioners or coaches.

• Cultivate positive relationships, avoid negative influences.

• You can find more inspiration in the blog post.

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Click here for Part 1 „"No basic trust: Why a lack of emotional security in your childhood was crucial."“
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Click here for Part 1 „No basic trust: Why a lack of emotional security in your childhood was crucial.“

Click on the following link: https://fidertas-awareness.com/kein-urvertrauen-emotionale-sicherheit

Click here for part 2: "Have you never truly arrived in life? Discover the secret of primal trust and primal mistrust!"„

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Introduction: Sarah's path to greater basic trust

Sarah had little basic trust and felt unsafe in almost every social interaction. uncertain and plagued by doubts. After she recognized the source of her initial mistrust, she was able to gradually build up her initial trust as an adult.

Sarah decided to relinquish control by no longer comparing herself to other women. She used social media more consciously and focused on her own progress.

This helped her to build basic trust and to be less influenced by external opinions.

Dissolve anger and strengthen self-esteem

An anger journal helped Sarah to release suppressed aggression. She regularly wrote down her feelings to better understand herself and find inner peace.

Gratitude meditation helped her practice acceptance. She wrote down three things she was grateful for each day. This practice changed her perspective and strengthened her self-esteem.

Monthly goals, such as taking advantage of coaching sessions and courses, boosted her self-confidence.

Practice self-care

Sarah learned that she had to come first. Routine breaks, like a relaxing bath or a walk in nature, helped her recharge.

Sarah's experiences inspire you to find your own path to inner security. This blog post presents some tips and exercises to help you do just that. building basic trust and to understand you better.

Basic trust as an adult: Is that possible?

Yes, you can as an adult. Building basic trust, But it takes time and effort. Start by understanding your underlying fears:

• Existential fear

• Fear of not being loved

• Fear of failure

• Fear of rejection

• Fear of change

Processing the past and strengthening mentally

Process past experiences and cultivate self-care. Take the time to listen to your inner voice and discover what you truly need, whether it's physical relaxation, mental rejuvenation, or simply a moment of peace.

This path requires patience. Stay true to yourself and take control of your life. This will make you more independent of external influences. Building basic trust as an adult will give you self-confidence and inner peace.

You will learn more about this in the following chapters.

The power of acceptance: Accepting what is!

Simply accepting situations, This opens the door to serenity and peace in your life. Accept reality as it is. By doing so, you relinquish control over what cannot be changed. This attitude leads to inner peace and strengthens your self-respect. Feel free to use this as well. Questions about self-discovery, to support your process.

Strength through personal experiences

Don't constantly compare yourself with others. Recognize the value of your own experiences and appreciate the lessons you have learned along the way. This is how your self-confidence grows.

Don't constantly ask "Why?" It often only leads to dissatisfaction, and you'll almost never get an answer.

Techniques for greater inner peace

To reduce stress, practice targeted breathing techniques. Breathe deeply in and out to release tension. Consciously take time each day to simply be. Meditate or spend time in places you love.

Reflection questions:

• Do I know my typical reactions to situations that are beyond my control?

• In which areas of my life do I notice „Release“especially difficult?”

• What thoughts negatively affect my inner peace?

• What changes for me if I stop making comparisons?

• What does letting go of the "why" mean to me?

• Are there routines that help me to accept things better?

• Can I find more inner peace through conscious breathing?

Harnessing the power of nature

Spending time outdoors can bring serenity and peace into your life. Fresh air and green landscapes boost your emotional well-being and help you find inner balance.

Practical tips for the outdoors:

• Take regular walks in the forest. The calming sounds of nature reduce stress. Walk barefoot on soft moss or warm sand.

• Whether by a tranquil lake or a babbling brook – the sound of water has a calming effect on the mind.

• Pay attention to the diverse colors of nature. Pause to admire the vibrant blossoms or the various shades of green in the leaves.

• Plan a picnic in the park or a hike. These experiences will recharge your energy reserves and promote inner peace.

Let the Nature, your source of strength Be present and experience how your basic trust grows.

Resolve suppressed anger and aggression

pent-up anger It can seriously disrupt your emotional balance. Remember that people who judge others often experience a negative impact on their own well-being.

Strategies for managing anger

• Breathing exercises and meditation: Find inner peace and release tense emotions.

• Sporting activities: Running, boxing or climbing help to release pent-up energy.

• Emotional diary: Write down your emotions to gain clarity.

• Sandpit for adults: Build creatively with sand and let go of negative feelings.

• Listen to nature sounds: Relax with soothing sounds and find yourself.

• Imaginary letter writing: Write to people to process unspoken feelings and then symbolically let them go.

• Loud singing or shouting: Find a safe space where you can sing or shout loudly.

• Healing the Inner ChildRemember moments from your childhood when you were angry and find ways to process and heal those emotions. To address such issues professionally, you might want to consider consulting a therapist. Book coaching.

Disclaimer for medical and therapeutic treatments

In cases of (severe) trauma and profound emotional wounds, it is essential to seek professional help. If you are suffering greatly from your experiences, do not hesitate to seek support from therapists or psychologists.

Seeking help is a courageous and important step on the road to recovery.

Strengthen your self-esteem

By learning to channel your anger constructively, you strengthen your self-esteem and prevent negative comments from hurting you.

Allow yourself to set clear boundaries in the future and not let yourself be treated unfairly anymore. Don't let yourself be hurt or mistreated.

„"Serenity begins where anger ends."“ - Unknown

Music as a healing force

Music can deeply touch your emotions and Promote healing. It partially releases emotional blockages and strengthens your self-confidence. The connection between emotions and music shows you how to discover inner balance.

• Soothing sounds: Choose gentle melodies or nature sounds to reduce stress. Sit in a quiet corner, close your eyes, and let the sounds wash over you.

• Playing music and singing: Play an instrument or sing to express your feelings. This activity can be liberating and boost your self-confidence.

• Dance as expression: Move to the music to release tension. Dancing releases positive energy and strengthens your body awareness.

Reflection questions:

• Which music touches me most emotionally?

• When can I use music intentionally to influence my mood?

• What role does music play in my life and my mental health?

• Are there any particular songs or melodies that help me let go of negative emotions?

• Can I express my feelings better through playing music or singing than through words?

• How can I use dance as a means of expressing my emotions?

Experience the power of music as a tool for emotional healing. Let the sounds carry you and find your way to more. self-confidence and inner peace.

SELF: -care, -trust, -worth and -efficacy

• Strengthen self-esteem It means valuing yourself and recognizing your own importance. It's like a delicate seedling that needs sun and water to grow. The more we nurture our self-worth, the stronger this seedling becomes and the better it can withstand the world.

• Building self-confidence This is the process by which we develop confidence in our abilities. It's like planting a sturdy tree whose roots reach deep into the ground. As we take on new challenges, we grow and our self-confidence becomes increasingly robust.

• Learning self-care It encompasses the practice of being kind to ourselves. It's like recharging a battery. Only when we give ourselves sufficient energy can we successfully manage our tasks. This balance leads to greater well-being, strengthens our self-respect, and enhances our ability to actively shape our lives.

• self-efficacy Confidence is the confidence in one's own ability to successfully carry out targeted actions. This conviction is like the wind in a ship's sails: without it, it stalls; with it, it glides powerfully. The more we set and achieve our goals, the more our sense of confidence grows. self-efficacy. This motivates us to take on new challenges.

2 tips for more self-esteem

• Cultivate positive self-talkPay attention to how you talk to yourself. Replace negative thoughts with positive affirmations. Instead of "I can't do this," say, "I will do my best and learn from this." Positive inner dialogue strengthens your self-esteem and helps you develop a more resilient attitude.

• Setting boundariesLearn, „to say "stop", When necessary. By respecting and prioritizing your own needs, you show yourself that your well-being is important. You actively make time and space for what is good for you and strengthens you.

2 tips for more self-confidence

• Setting and achieving goalsStart with small, achievable goals that help you strengthen your skills. Every time you reach a goal, no matter how small, you boost your self-confidence. Keep your Successes fixed, to remind you of your abilities in difficult times.

• Expand your comfort zoneSeek out opportunities that challenge you, whether through new experiences or learning new skills. By putting yourself in new situations and mastering them, you expand your comfort zone. Every fear or challenge overcome strengthens your self-confidence and gives you the feeling that you can handle anything.

2 tips for regularly scheduling self-care

• Establish fixed routinesSchedule self-care activities into your daily or weekly routine. Whether it's daily meditation, a relaxing bath on Sunday, or regular walks, by adding these activities to your calendar, you ensure you're taking time for yourself.

• Find a self-care partnerFind a friend with whom you can practice self-care. Whether it's yoga classes, cooking nights, or book clubs, sharing these activities can increase motivation and help you maintain your self-care routine.

2 tips to strengthen self-efficacy

• reflecting successesTake time regularly to reflect on your successes and positive experiences. Write down what you have achieved and which skills you have used. This reflection shows you how much you have already accomplished. It strengthens your sense of self-efficacy and motivates you for future challenges.

• Setting realistic challengesSet yourself achievable and specific goals that gently push you out of your comfort zone without overwhelming you. By accepting and mastering these small challenges, you build self-confidence. Each achieved goal demonstrates your ability and competence, strengthening your self-efficacy.

Your personal compass: Develop trust in yourself!

Journaling as a mirror

To build basic trust, it is essential to strengthen your trust in yourself. Journaling (Journaling) acts like a mirror, revealing your inner thoughts and feelings.

This way you will understand yourself better and can stop self-deprecation.

Rediscovering creativity

Awaken the creative streak that was present when I was a child. Painting, crafting, or making music – let creativity shine like a colorful rainbow in your life, even as an adult woman. Find Serenity and inner peace through a (new or old) hobby.

These activities promote your self-realization and help you regain basic trust.

Gather positive experiences

Consciously collect positive experiences and successes. Every small step forward is a building block that strengthens your self-confidence. Talk openly about your emotions, fears, and thoughts with people you trust.

This not only helps to clarify your own perspective, but also fosters deeper connections and understanding with others.

„"Silent trust heals the heart."“ – Friedrich Wilhelm Gotter

Accept help

Neutral individuals such as alternative practitioners or coaches can also provide valuable insights. They offer objective perspectives and advice based on experience and expertise.

These experts help to create clarity in complex situations and to find tailor-made solutions together with you.

Cultivating valuable relationships

Intensify your contact with people who are good for you. Distance yourself from those who negatively influence you. Refrain from putting people in boxes.

Foster open and respectful communication. These steps will build basic trust and create a supportive environment., harmonious environment.

More inspiration for you

• Mindful mandala drawingCreate mandalas as a form of meditation to promote focus and self-awareness and to build inner confidence.

• Forest bathing retreatSpend a day in the forest practicing Shinrin-yoku, or forest bathing, and find peace and grounding in nature.

• Guided VisualizationUse guided imagery to visualize a safe, trustworthy place, thereby reinforcing feelings of security and self-confidence.

• Sound healing with singing bowls: Take part in a sound bath with Tibetan singing bowls to release tension and promote emotional healing.

• Nature photography walksCapture moments in nature through photography. Bees, plants, and landscapes are great subjects for your photos.

• Meditation with affirmationsPractice daily affirmation meditations to strengthen positive beliefs and build self-confidence.

• Art diaryKeep an art journal in which you visually express your thoughts and emotions to promote self-discovery and acceptance.

• Mindful gardening: Work mindfully in the garden, concentrate on the process, in order to cultivate patience and inner peace.

• Aromatherapy with essential oilsUse essential oils in a diffuser to create a calming atmosphere that promotes relaxation and emotional balance.

• Watching cloudsSpend time watching clouds, let your thoughts wander, and foster a sense of wonder and openness.

• Creative work with clayShape and mold clay as a tactile meditation to anchor yourself in the present moment and in creativity.

• Breathwork sessions: Participate in guided breathing exercises to reduce stress and promote clarity and inner peace.

• Create a vision boardCreate a vision board to visualize your goals and desires. This will strengthen your belief in your path and your ability to create.

• Creative writing promptsUse writing to explore feelings and ideas. For example, you can write stories about wondrous adventures, or record thoughts about life and the world around us.

Coloring book „Strengthening basic trust, feeling inner peace & security – opening the heart and giving trust“

Reconnect with yourself and your inner strength. Our Coloring book „Strengthening basic trust, feeling inner peace & security“ It transforms inner restlessness into conscious self-care.

For women who experience moments emotional security want to experience it. Each of the 50 lovingly designed motifs is accompanied by a positive affirmation tied together.

About the following Amazon link You can view and order it here: 

https://www.amazon.de/dp/B0FVTMBW3N

Conclusion: Your path to primal trust and inner peace

Greater self-confidence comes from building your basic trust. By releasing old, suppressed anger, you create space for new things. Accepting what is leads you to greater inner peace and self-love.

Develop personal strength

Your self-esteem and self-confidence are the foundations on which you stand. Strengthen them to master everyday life with more composure. Learning self-care is essential. It helps you live in harmony with yourself.

Integrate the techniques you've learned into your daily life. Every small step counts and brings you closer to a fulfilling life. The journey to yourself begins now, with every conscious breath.

What will you do today to achieve your Strengthening basic trust and to realize your full potential? Let this question be the beginning of your positive transformation.

Your Julia & your Steffen

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Disclaimer: This text is for informational purposes only. If you are experiencing trauma, please seek advice from an expert (e.g., a therapist, counselor, or other professional). Therapists).

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